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My late father was the most valuable person in my life. I owe everything to him. He paved the way for me to have a good future. He had this insight that knowledge is most precious thing in the life. When I was an adolescent boy for a couple of years my father had serious financial problems but against that he sent me to one of the best schools of that time and never cut anything from the money that was necessary for my education. I understood and felt the difficulties that my parents had and the sacrifices that they did . That was a big motivation for me and encouraged me to tried harder and studied more to compensate a part of their efforts and made them happy. I did my best and most of the time I was top student in my classes and at last was accepted in Shiraz medical school entrance exam. Now whenever I look back I notice that everything that I and my family have is in reality the result of my parent sacrifices and efforts. God bless them.
In my opinion having self confidence and the ability of making good communication with other people and the ability to flourish our own talents are the main items that every successful person usually has. So I hope that I can teach these to my children or at least pave their way to learn these in their life. Both my mother and my late father did their best but I wish that my parents had more facilities in their lives to teach me more, especially in those fields that I mentioned.
In my opinion having self confidence and the ability of making good communication with other people and the ability to flourish our own abilities and talents are the main items that every successful person usually has. So I hope that I can learn these to my children or at least pave their way to learn these in their life. Both my mother and my late father did their best but I wish that my parents had more facilities in their lives to teach me more, especially in those fields that I mentioned.
I usually express my gratitudes and respect toward who compliments me and sometimes reciprocate. I try not to have bad feeling about receiving compliment . I think that it can increase my self esteem and if I think I don’t deserve such compliment it can be a motivation for me to work on my weak points and progress in future.
I prefer to control my emotions. I learned to be more cateious and think about anything before expressing my feelings or commenting about it.
And about friendship I usually try to know somebody to some extent before accepting their Freindship or making new friends.According to my experience it is better to listen to my friends. In the past a few times I did not do that and most of the time it had bad results. So if my friends especially those who have good knowledge deter me from doing something I certainly listen to them.
I inform them. If I do not not do that I always be ashamed of myself thinking that I behaved like a dishonest person. I think morality is one of the main pillars of a society and it affects other people and spread like a nice fragrance everywhere or contaminate other people like a serious contagious illness.
Most of the time I have the same routine in my daily time, not doing everything exactly on the same time but do them with a threshold of an hour. For example I usually have lunch at 13:30 with one hour threshold earlier or later or I usually wake up at 5 a.m. with same threshold. I think to be successful it needs to set a daily routin based on our goal and prioritizing our routines based on it. But in reality sticking to a daily routine which is set on realistic base with consideration of our abilities is at first difficult but if we successfuly do it for several successive weeks we gradually get use to it. Doing the same routin is not necesserily has good result in long-term period. I think we need to reconsider it and replaned it sometimes and based on our new condition revise it.
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I really recommend it to any one who is fond of learning English.Some of the advantages living in countryside:
1- slower peace of life, more relax and less stressful life so more plesenter.
2-less pollution, less noise because there is less industry, less traffic, less building work than in a city so it is healthier to live in a village.
3- stronger communities. Families life there generation after generation. They know eachother very well so community is quite close and neighbor s have a good relationship with eachother.
4. Bigger and more beautiful houseI almost always try to do my best and keep my promises . If I think that I probably cannot do sth I do not promise . I used to trust people espicially my freinds but since one of my close friends cheated on me I took a hard and painful lesson to be more cautious. In my opinion the pillar of trust in a relationship is honesty. Since my bitter experience I became more skeptical and usually think more before trusting others.
I consider myself an up average person. Maybe some people can find some good points in my behavior and personality but being a charismatic person is something different. I know that charisma is a set of social skills that can be learnt but I perefer to be a ordinary person that do his job and responsibilities best,
I had a friend that I considered him a charismatic person but unfortunalely time proved that I was wrong.